5th reply to Sister Sensual

Name      : Calvin

Question : What is your ideal kind of guy?

Reply      : Hi Calvin, I think I know which Calvin you are kekeke. My ideal kind of guy is someone with a kind heart who is kind and generous to people who are less well off than him. He should also be well mannered and have patient with old folks and kids. I like a guy who I can proudly show off to my friends without him saying something stupid and I plan to have kids in the future, kids being kids will be difficult to handle so I want my man to be patient with them and not yell at them. Ideally my guy should be humorous so that our days will be filled with laughter and happiness. I believe having a happy life is much more important than having a successful life. He should also love and adore me, no looking at other girls or else I will get angry and he would have to spend time pacifying me. My guy should also behave like a gentleman, opening car doors for me, pulling out my chair for me at restaurant, helping me with my orders, warming me up when I'm cold, holding my hand when crossing the street.

Lastly he need to be at least average looking and dress himself well enough for me to feel proud hugging his arm when walking on the street. I will doll up myself for him and for other guys to be envy of him so I think he should also do the same for me. Some time when I see very pretty girlfriend with boyfriend who wear sandals to Orchard Road I feel sad for the guy.

My ideal kind of handsome man

Name      : Curious

Question : Do you prefer being fingered or licked?

Reply      : If I have to choose I would prefer being licked because it feels more intimate when my guy is willing to go down on my pussy. I know of guys who do not lick because they feel that it is dirty but they demand for blowjob from their girlfriend. I think that is so unfair. The tongue is also more pleasurable than fingers due to the warmth that the tongue gives out when it is licking and some guys will also breathe through their mouth while in action adding another small sense of enjoyment to my pussy when the warm breath brushes my pussy. Licking also help to make my pussy wetter due to the saliva produce when the guy is licking so the actual sex later is much more enjoyable also compared to just fingering. I hope I answer you well enough Mr Curious.

By the way why can't we just have both? kekeke.

Will you be my Valentine?

Hello everyone~~~~

The poll result is out and the majority have voted for Be adventurous and celebrate with some of the nicer guys I met online.

I will be celebrating Valentine's Day with someone from the internet!!!

I have decided that I will select on one guy from the internet to go on a date on Valentine's Day. I'm soooooo excited~~~ this will be the second time for me to meet someone online. I hope this will be a much better experience than the last one :)

How to be my potential Valentine's Day date

Please go to my Sensual Shirley's Facebook wall and post the following information on my wall:

1. Your age.
2. Race.
3. Height and weight.
4. If you do not have a profile picture then please describe how you look.
5. What you plan to wear on that day (how a guy present himself is a very important factor for me).
6. Describe how you plan to celebrate Valentine's day with me if you are selected. Please include dinner into the itinerary, I find it hard to maintain a cute and sexy look if my stomach is growling.
7. Finally tell me what makes you special. Why I should pick you over everyone else :p

Important things to note:

1. The date will start at 5pm and end when it ends...

2. Flower is a must, please give me at least 1 stalk of rose so that I will not feel insulted when every other girl on the street have a flower.

3. I don't mind going dutch. If you expect me to pay for my own expenses please avoid bringing me to places that are too expensive. My budget for dinner is $100 and $200 for the entire night.

4. I promise that I will turn up for the date but I also reserve the right to walk away if you prove to be creepy or someone I am uncomfortable with at any point during the date. I will walk away immediately if you under-dress because I will doll myself up nicely for you so if you under-dress you are not showing me respect as your date. Please at least turn up clean and presentable.

5. When I decide you are the guy I want to go out with I will give you my contact number so that we can meet up properly on Valentine's Day. Please do not post my picture or my contact number online, I will not post your information online without your approval too.

6. You don't have to drive, I don't mind holding your bicep for support on public transport :)

7. Please don't be a desperate and ask or expect to have sex with me. I have not had a permanent partner for quite some time already so I am more desperate than most of you are. If I feel that there is chemistry and find you nice enough you don't have to ask for it because I will *wink wink*.

8. Only male above about 18 will be accepted.

Point 9 is being added after receiving feedback from some of the guys who are afraid of revealing themselves online.

9. For people who are afraid of using your own profile I do not mind you using a temporary or secondary profile to post on my wall to protect your identity but please do not create multiple account to post on my wall to increase your chance because that is really unfair to others.

If you are as daring as me and want to spend your Valentine's day with a stranger (me) please go to my wall and submit the information that I requested and I will make a decision on 6 Feb 2016.

I'm waiting for you :)

Will you be my Valentine?

4th reply to Sister Sensual

Name      : Ahboi

Question : So Valentine's Day is coming. Daring enough to have a new date? *grin* I am quite confident of myself though.

Reply      : Dear Ahboi, I am not sure about why I need to be daring to have a new date because I am confident that I can always find a new date if I wanted to. If you are talking about daring enough to find a new date from the internet then I am also quite sure that I have by now overcome my fear of dating strangers online or else I won't be creating the poll with the option of dating an online stranger.

The more important question is what have your confident got to do with my new date? kekekeke

Am I daring enough to date someone from the internet? I think I am :)

Name      : Ahyew

Question : How many one night stands did you have? How do you feel about it? And why?

Reply      : I had about five one night stands and I am not sure that will be the end of it kekeke. I feel that one night stands usually feel like a typical having sex kind of sex which are satisfying most of the time as I have my ways to get guys to give in to my needs but usually one night stands are somewhat lacking in pleasure compared to true making love between a couple or some kinky sex with someone you know but you didn't expect to be having sex with.

3rd reply to Sister Sensual

Name      : PussEater

Question : How you like your guy to eat your juicy oyster? being controlled or having controlled ?

Reply      :Since your nick is PussEater I assume you are not talking about the real oyster but about pussy receiving cunninling. I like guys to eat my pussy in a slow and sensual manner most of the time, I like gentle guys. I like being controlled, maybe it is due to my tendency to be more feminine. I like to be treated like a lady more than as an equal to another man so I tend to be more submissive when I am being eaten. That being said I am not against taking the initiative to spice things up every now and then.

Name      : James

Question : What is the most number of partners you have at a time?

Reply      : There were four of us including me, we were having a holiday overseas. Earlier in the night we went to watch some show where the lady perform some unique feats with her privates. Back at the hotel we were having a discussion about what happened at the show. One thing lead to another and we ended up having lots of fun that night :)

Valentine's Day is just one month away

TGIF everyone~~~

Today is one exact month away from February 14th which is widely known and celebrated as Valentine's Day. This year is a little bit special because this year is the only year in my adult life that I don't have a dating partner or an official boyfriend to celebrate with. Sigh...

When will I find my Mr Right?

I have already received invitation from some of my male acquaintances but most of them have been rejected by me in the years before. I didn't like them enough to celebrate Valentine's Day together with them back then and I still didn't like them enough today to decide that I want them to celebrate that special day with me. I won't mind if we did celebrate together but I just can't picture it to be romantic enough that it will lead to something happening...Sigh...

There is a certain male friend that have been holding a torch for me for a long time but again I know he loves me but I have no special feeling for him, I like him as a friend but nothing more than that.

My FB is still away overseas and will not be back at least until March so he is out of the question too :(

I have recently encountered a few nice guys on the internet whom I think are mostly readers of my blog. But I am afraid to meet them up for fear that they will spread my picture all over the internet. Given the sensitive topic that I write about if they spread my picture online I may not be able to get married, at least no longer in Singapore that's for sure.

But the little girl in me still wants to celebrate Valentine's Day... it is a day where we ladies get pampered like a princess and I want to be pampered like a princess. Everyone please help to give me some advice by voting in the poll at the end of this blog post okie?

I was approached by 4 Star Army General of the US Army!!!

Today I received an online message from this guy on Google+ whose username was Raymond Murray. Without me asking he informed me that he is an US Army 4 Star General, I was like "wow! a 4 Star General?!"

I may be a cute lady and accommodating in bed but I am by no means stupid. Thinking that out of the entire internet an US Army 4 Star General would choose to message ME little Shirley is too good to be true I took the conversation with a tub of salt. One very very big tub, big enough to drown a pint sized lady like me.

I sneakily did some research during the duration of conversation and what did I found? This! Kekekeke

Apparently there are many people claiming to be US military top brass on the internet trying to scam unsuspecting people into... into... I don't know... I am not sure what a kind of perks they want to squeeze out of common people like me but it was just creepy. 

I have already blocked said General because I did not want to distract him from his peace keeping mission...kekeke

The suspected not to be real general's  profile can be seen here :  His profile

Boys and girls please be more careful and do not give suspicious people your personal information okie?

I have attached our conversation for your amusement :)

I was praised by a General oh my gosh!!!

General want to see my picture kekeke

I did a test to see if said General can produce an impromptu selfie

General send me some stock photo you can get more the internet

General have no idea what is a tank

2nd reply to Sister Sensual

Name      : Calvin

Question : What the most kinky thing you did before?

Reply      :  I have done a lot of things that can be considered kinky. From phone calls to staircases. But if you want me to settle on the kinkiest thing I have done before then I think it would be having sex with a guy who is not my boyfriend while wearing a soccer jersey and shorts. It was during midnight and we were watching a live soccer match as a group so we wore the different team's jersey. I was not wearing anything inside so the guy just pull my short's opening aside and slot it in. It was very exciting and kinky as there were other people in the house and we had to make sure they don't find out. It was like a sexual hide and seek.

Name      : supercurious

Question : Can all girls climax many times? And do girls prefer by the G spot or by the button? ?

Reply      : Firstly I am one girl so I have no idea whether all girls can climax many times, I myself is able to achieve multiple climax in a night but I also need to let you know that I am a girl who is very sensitive. I am not so sure what button you are talking about. If you are talking about preference between G spot or nipples then I myself is more sensitive down there although I do climax before from my nipples being played but most of the time I prefer to be touch down there. But if you are unsure of your partner's preference I suggest that you can just play with both nipples and pussy with equal effort :p

Button?

Introducing Sister Sensual and first reply

I am sure some of you will be curious as to what is the use of the "Sister Sensual" function at the right side of my Shirley's Secret Corner blog. The idea of Sister Sensual came from the popular concept of Aunt Agony spiced up with my own sensuality, cuteness and romanticism. With a function like Sister Sensual I can broadcast my reply so that people don't have to keep repeating the same question and I don't have to reply the same question to individual readers over and over again in private.Sister Sensual is where you can ask me anything you want and I will answer them to the best of my ability with full frontal honesty. However I reserve the right to not answer any question that I may feel uncomfortable with. If I choose to respond your question I will do it in a blog post with the "sister sensual" label, so do watch out for new blog post to see if your question receive a response.


For the first ever question I will answer on Sister Sensual:
 
 *Drum roll.......................


Name      : SeriousGuy

Question :  Which is more important. Length or Width?

Reply      :  Unless I am too naive I think it would be safe to assume that dear SeriousGuy is referring to a guy's penis's length and width... *shy* For me personally I feel that length is more important than width. Main reason for that is because I am quite small down there so I don't need someone too thick, he just need to have the length to hit the G which is not too hard given my small build.


If you guys have more question feel free to just use the Sister Sensual function to send it to me :p

You may not be having the right kind of sex

Hello~~~~~ 

This is my first post in Shirley's Secret Corner, today I will talk about the art of making love and how it is different from having sex and mating.

Many of my male ex-partner assume that they know how to make love just because they are fucking the girl and they manage to cum after humping us for half an hour. That is not making love that is having sex. Let me the little love guru educate you guys about different kind of sex and which kind you should be having.

Mating:

Mating is the most unsatisfactory form of sex for us lady. There is usually no foreplay, no blowjob needed. I have personally never experience this kind of sex but my more experienced female friends have told me about the horrors of mating sex. It usually happen when the couple are in their 30s who are both not longer physically attracted to each other and only have sex in order to have children. For those couple the purpose of sex is for the result of trying to get a children so the sex itself is boring and straightforward. There is no foreplay, unless you consider that few rough finger action on the pussy to just getting the lady to be mildly wet to be foreplay. The purpose of mating is for the male to ejaculate inside a female, the it is a result base activity. My female MILF friend sum it up best when she tells me, " if my husband can use a syringe to inject his sperm in me he won't even be bothered to fuck me" :(

Usually occur between: husband and wife.

Love factor: No love involved, the couple just want to get things done as quickly as possible.

Need to cum: Mandatory.

Orgasm for female: No need, won't happen most of the time.

Summary: Mating is not fun, it is just for baby making.

Having Sex:

Having sex is the in between of making love and mating. The objective of having sex is of course penetration sex itself, the very process of having sex usually start with either a male or female feeling extremely horny and so begin the process of finding like minded person to release their sexual pressure. Having sex can occur between any two individual who are both horny, there is no need for love to exist between the two of them. Unfortunately because love may not exist between the two partner so sex can end up with each of them trying to achieve their own goal without giving in to their partner. A guy might skip giving cunnilingus and the girl might avoid giving blowjob as result of both just wanting to quickly get to sexual penetration. 

Usually occur between: boyfriend and girlfriend, hook ups, friends with benefit

Love factor: the need for love is overridden by the need to release the pent up sexual pressure

Need to cum: yes of course!

Orgasm for female: can happen but no promise.

Summary: Having sex is great fun but love can some times be absent and the party involve can be selfish.

Making Love

Making love is the best kind of sex and also my personal favorite. I try my best to make every sex I have the making love kind. The most important element in making love is love. It is less about the physical action of sex and more about two person trying their best to make each other feel loved and in the process make each other feel extremely pleasured with their body. It may not be the kind of love you have for your husband or wife to be. Love can be between two mutually physically attracted platonic friend who wish to have sex together or between a pair of friends with benefit sincerely care for one another well being as a person. When love is present in sex there is no selfishness involved. You will want to give him the best blow job ever and he will want to lick you forever. The cum and orgasm will occur naturally or it may not even happen if one party is too engross in pleasing the other party to forget their own need. But the merit of making love is that many sessions of love making can happen in the same night so there are chance for multiple orgasm and cumming to take place even if one party did not achieve them during the first session.


Usually occur between: boyfriend and girlfriend, husband and wife, friends with benefit, anyone.

Love factor: love is in the air!

Need to cum: most of them time but not necessary.

Orgasm for female: yes of course!

Summary: Making love this is best form of sex as both the guy and girl will try their best to please each other resulting in potential for multiple cum and orgasm for both.

So people even if your motive for sex is about having a child you can still have making love kind of sex rather than the boring mating sex. Before you engage in sex remember how much you love each other, concentrate on pleasing the other party and you will be drowning in cum and orgasm :p